Anyone got any ideas about how to pick up girls? Would be nice to have a girlfriend for homecoming. I already have this girls phone number, how should I follow through on it?
Merc, Princess, Shale, etc. this question is kinda directed to you...

I know this sounds crazy

How old are you?

AC,
MySpace, online chat, you know her from school right?
You need to start a rapport with her before you jump right in with the phone number imo.
Intrigue her ;dance , impress her ;boohoo , make her laugh :D , compliment her :bow , ask her out, ;pizza and before you know it... :kiss ;hug

Wierd but true thing. In the right situation you have about an 80% chance going up to a really hot girl and saying she is very hot and you would love to take her out.

And the best thing is, a few no's will do you good and you will get more yes's.

And relax. the prettiest girls are almost never worth he bother... And the ones who are not so pretty can trun into by far the prettiest when they want to.

AC...

My advice...talk to her first...become firendly...but keep some mystery there...

At first, always make youself on the go...say something to her like...I've only got a few minutes...but wanted to get your opinion on this (insert something interesting here)...then as soon as you get it...just say thanks and jet out of there...this will set up some intrigue...

After a bit you need to give her a compliment...with a gentle negative...;) say something to her like...I love your smile...especially the way your teeth are a little bit crooked...

Give it a few days...and then start to talk to her about homecoming...and casually slip it into the conversation that you would like her to go with you....


Not guaranteed to work...but always worth a try...

And I agree with ghetto bob...don't just call her out of the blue...you need to make sure you have some rapport first...if she digs you...it makes your job that much easier...;)

And sadly...I agree with Peonboss...the prettiest girls aren't always the prettiest when they get glammed up...sometimes the girl who doesn't wear make up and doesn't do her hair every day will look gorgeous for a formal...

But if she is the prettiest girl in her group of friends and is always with her friends....then develop rapport with her friends first, and ignore her...or if she keeps butting into conversation...say something to her friends like...does she always but in like that?...she'll be used to getting most of the attention...and when she doesn't get it it'll make her want it more from you...

yeah i agree with mercury, a neg hit (what my friends refer to it as) is when you say something like "oh, you look nice and tanned, what fake tan do you use?" this compliments someone, neg hits them, and asks them a question... good for getting started! :evil

Brobie, 14

GB, I didn't even ask for her phone number, she just put it into my phone when I wasn't looking. Plus, she's actually really good looking. ;88 ;88 :love ;88 ;88

Ok, so IM, chat, and other internet stuff first, before I ask her out? She says she likes tubing and water skiing (We own a boat ;88 ) maybe a good idea?

I've known her since elementary school by the way.

Good advice Merc, I'll keep that in mind. Thanks.
Anyone got any more hints?

Brobie, 14

GB, I didn't even ask for her phone number, she just put it into my phone when I wasn't looking. Plus, she's actually really good looking. ;88 ;88 :love ;88 ;88

Ok, so IM, chat, and other internet stuff first, before I ask her out? She says she likes tubing and water skiing (We own a boat ;88 ) maybe a good idea?

I've known her since elementary school by the way.


Talk to her in person first...not internet...;)

yeah, shes in my gym class, and we have been talking a little for 2 weeks. Shes not the obnoxious, slather on the makeup type eitheir. She's pretty good looking without any of that stuff.

Hehe, never thought I'd reply to this but I guess I have advice...

Don't be nervous, being shy wont get you a date, try to talk to her with the ease that you would to a friend.

Dont try to act different around her to be more impressive, she'll look through that and your soul in less than 4 seconds.

Do what everyone else here says.

Do ask her clearly when you do. If you work it into the conversation dont do it like "I was thinking of who to ask and thinking of you" rather like "I was thinking of homecoming and.. would you like to go with me?" And obvious question rather than a clumsy statement. disclaimer- these are example questions

And I'm spent...

Always show that you are confident, even if you are not. Girls do not like guys who are not confident in themselves. However, do not be ****y or obnoxious. Asking a lot of questions helps because it makes her open up to you, and always pay attention to what she says. When is your homecoming?

Brobie, 14

GB, I didn't even ask for her phone number, she just put it into my phone when I wasn't looking. Plus, she's actually really good looking. ;88 ;88 :love ;88 ;88

Ok, so IM, chat, and other internet stuff first, before I ask her out? She says she likes tubing and water skiing (We own a boat ;88 ) maybe a good idea?

I've known her since elementary school by the way.

So let me get this straight...SHE put HER number into YOUR phone without even asking you first...you go to school with her, talk to her during class, and she dropped a HUGE hint about what she likes to do in her free time, which you can just happen to fill since you have a boat...to me this is a lay-up, shooting fish in a barrel, fishing with dynamite, etc. etc. This shouldn't be that hard to close on man. If you like her though and want more than friendship status make sure she knows that you two are NOT just going as friends to the dance. Once that happens you will be shafted to the friend zone where many a good men have had their hopes, dreams, and hearts ripped out, because she'll always be like why do I always date losers and how come I can't find anyone like you to date. At which point you will either hit her in the head with a lead pipe or go home and cry on your pillow while sucking your thumb.

In short; It's time to seal this deal :cheer ;hug :cheer

P.S. If you can get it and it's legal booze helps the process ;drunk (she'll be the one falling down) ;)

i agree with pestilence's read on this. and everyone else's advice is really great.

my own advice would be to hang out with her with a group, if you're nervous of asking her out right away. this takes the pressure off and will make it easier for you to build some trust before going one on one.

also, you can just mention the prom, like what the theme is and so forth in order to talk about it. she may volunteer whether she has a date or not and also give you an idea of her attitude toward it. from my experience, girls choose the guy so you're really almost extraneous to the process ;) if she wants to go to the prom with you, she'll find a way of letting you know.

either way, it sounds like it's already going really well so don't screw it up :D

finally, start saving your geos NOW.

P.S. If you can get it and it's legal booze helps the process ;drunk (she'll be the one falling down) ;)

It's not legal for them. He is 14, this is America. He can get alcohol, just not legally.

Pestilence has got it in one, it's time to seal the deal.

If she has given you her number without asking, you know she already has an interest in you which makes the rest of it easy. ;beer

AC

what ever you do DONT USE ALCOHOLE it will stuff up everything altho it might make the night fun it will change everything and she wont see you in such a friendly way. mate heres the way that i go out with chicks i show them that im interested in them and show compashion dont go all hard out and act like a w***** man just do what you feels right and go by the heart not the head i know it sounds stupid but just do it and tell her how you feel, it works every time with me so i dont see how anything should be different with you


P.S DONT DO ANYTHING STUPID!!!

let me know how it go's ;)

Ahh to be fourteen again. Young, naive, clueless, nothing but lust for Women...bliss...

Enjoy it while it lasts my friend.

(But first: ;club ... that'd be a clue stick ;) ) hehe

Anyone got any ideas about how to pick up girls? Would be nice to have a girlfriend for homecoming. I already have this girls phone number, how should I follow through on it?
Merc, Princess, Shale, etc. this question is kinda directed to you...

I know this sounds crazy

Don't attack her city...... then again it may be a ploy. Ask her to join your alliance. That may help. Maybe give her a gift of some geos. or you to can get a costal city, somewhere exotic.


Wow, from reading my response, i figure, that i am spending way to much time on this game

;14

AC...

My advice...talk to her first...become firendly...but keep some mystery there...

At first, always make youself on the go...say something to her like...I've only got a few minutes...but wanted to get your opinion on this (insert something interesting here)...then as soon as you get it...just say thanks and jet out of there...this will set up some intrigue...

After a bit you need to give her a compliment...with a gentle negative...;) say something to her like...I love your smile...especially the way your teeth are a little bit crooked...

Give it a few days...and then start to talk to her about homecoming...and casually slip it into the conversation that you would like her to go with you....


Not guaranteed to work...but always worth a try...

And I agree with ghetto bob...don't just call her out of the blue...you need to make sure you have some rapport first...if she digs you...it makes your job that much easier...;)

And sadly...I agree with Peonboss...the prettiest girls aren't always the prettiest when they get glammed up...sometimes the girl who doesn't wear make up and doesn't do her hair every day will look gorgeous for a formal...

But if she is the prettiest girl in her group of friends and is always with her friends....then develop rapport with her friends first, and ignore her...or if she keeps butting into conversation...say something to her friends like...does she always but in like that?...she'll be used to getting most of the attention...and when she doesn't get it it'll make her want it more from you...



I am with Merc on this one, but the fact that she has given you her number is a massive HINT!!! Maybe it is time to call her if you have not done so already. Anyway good luck with it all -and I thank god I am no longer 14.

Pest nailed it!! She already thinks you a good guy and likes talking to you.....go for it...


she every mention any other boys? if she's talking about other boys around you then she may just want to be buds with ya....if not....oh baby...u in!!!!!!!!

hurry up and make her fall in love with you...you can get her to jewel for ya!! :cheesy

nah, she never talks about other guys around me, hmmm, I'm liking this a lot! ;90

heres my plan.
1. Both of our families are going to the same bar and grill friday to watch the little leage world series game. (our cities in it!!!)
2. Go to a midnight, city wide party together saturday. Its a charity midnight run that our biggest barbeque resturant holds. last years attendence was 5,000+!
3. Go water skiing/tubing on Sunday at the river where take our boat.

Huh? Is it good or what!

Don't pressure her into anything though. If she doesn't want a kiss, don't go in for one. If she does, you'll notice. Good luck

Learn to Skateboard...

LOL. :cool:

I'm sorry I was wrong to tell you to use alcohol...you sound rich enough to buy Ecstasy, use that instead. ;95

ecstasy is cheaper than alcohol...

Holy crap. Stop reading the forum and asking questions and call her! Or better yet ask her out face to face. Gym class may not be the right place so ask her if she'll meet you after school. Ask her before Friday. She'll say yes and you will have much more fun Friday night that way!

You should of done it the second she put her phone number into your phone. But I understand that I wouldnt have realizied what that either when I was 14. I've always gone for the straight forward and honest, but not pushy, approach. If your interested tell her. Be nice about it but tell her. The worst thing she can say is no and your heart will be broken for a little while. And there is nothing wrong with that. It will happen a lot in your upcoming years. But odds are she'll say yes and you'll be the luckiest kid on Earth for a while. Good luck to you!

ecstasy is cheaper than alcohol...

Maybe the stuff that might kill you is...or you just might have expensive booze

Let's keep off the booze and drugs. AC, you seem to have a good chance, but there are plenty of other fish in the sea is she turns you down. Hopefully she'll say yes. Oh man to be 14 again, lol.

So i definitly should call her? And no, I will never stop reading the forums.

Yes, call, even if you have nothing to talk about just chat with her. She wanted you to call or she'd have never given you the number.

Yes, call, even if you have nothing to talk about just chat with her. She wanted you to call or she'd have never given you the number.

Believe me if she is a girl and isn't hiding a penis than her talking on the phone won't be a problem. Just keep saying, "oh really" "than what" "wow" "of course i'm listening" and if you get in a pinch "wait what did you say you broke up there for a minute". Yep that's how you talk to the women folk.

she plays on the volley ball team at school, should I talk about that, and should I go to any of their games?

heh, great advice so far.. you could play dumb and call her up:

AC: "hello?"
TG (the girl)" "hello?"
AC: "oh hey, i didnt know it was you, <insert name here>. i saw this number on my fone and was wondering who it was"
TG: "yes, it was me.. i snuck it in there" (or something she replies with)
AC: "haha, sneaky of you! hmm i dont think we've ever talked on the fone before, have we?"
TG: "<something, probably 'no we havent'"
AC: "so, are you going to the dance?"
TG: <"something, probaly "oh i dunno... maybe, nobody has asked me yet">"
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well, ok, so maybe the last few lines are all conjecture. but its at least an opening converstation and reason for calling her :)

I would say merc is right, talk to her in person and I would say to ask her out on your boat ;)

Definately go to her volleyball game...it shows that you're interested in what she is doing....

And tell her that she played great!

Ok the only other advice I can give you is this, revise and learn the next few paragraphs, without it you are dead in the water:-

1. "Fine"
This is the word women use at the end of any argument when they feel they are right but can't stand to hear you argue any longer. It means that you should shut up. (NEVER use "Fine" to describe how she looks. This will cause you to have one of those arguments.)

2. "Five minutes"
This is half an hour. It is equivalent to the five minutes that your football game is going to last before you take out the trash, so women feel that it's an even trade.

3. "Nothing"
"Nothing" means something and you should be on your toes. "Nothing" is usually used to describe the feeling a woman has of wanting to turn you inside out, upside down, and backwards. "Nothing" usually signifies an argument that will last "Five Minutes" and end with the word "Fine."

4. "Go Ahead" (with raised eyebrows)
This is NOT permission; it's a dare! If you mistake it for permission, the result will be the woman will get upset over "Nothing" and you'll have a "Five-minute" discussion that will end with the word "Fine."

5. "Go Ahead" (normal eyebrows)
This is NOT permission, either. It means, "I give up" or "do what you want because I don't care." You will get a raised eyebrow "Go Ahead" in just a few minutes, followed by "Nothing" and "Fine" and she will talk to you in about "Five Minutes" when she cools off.

6. "Loud Sigh"
This is not actually a word, but is still often a verbal statement.
Very frequently misunderstood by men. A "Loud Sigh" means she thinks you are a complete idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you over "Nothing."

7. "Soft Sigh"
Again, not a word, but a verbal statement. "Soft Sighs" are one of the few things that some men actually understand. It means she is momentarily content. Your best bet is to not move or breathe in the hope that the moment will last a bit longer.

8. "Oh"
This word-followed by any statement-is trouble. Example; "Oh, let me get that". Or, "Oh, I talked to him about what you were doing last night." If she says "Oh" before a statement, run, do not walk, to the nearest exit.
She will tell you that she is "Fine" when she is done tossing your clothes out the window, but do not expect her to talk to you for at least two days.

9. "That's Okay"
This is one of the most dangerous statements that a woman can say to a man.
"That's Okay" means that she wants to think long and hard before deciding what the penalty will be for whatever you have done. "That's Okay" is often used with the word "Fine" and in conjunction with a raised eyebrow "Go Ahead." Once she has had time to plan it out, you are in for some mighty big trouble.

10. "Please Do"
This is not a statement, it is an offer. The woman is giving you the chance to come up with an excuse for what you have done. In other words, a chance to get yourself into even more trouble. If you handle this correctly, you shouldn't get a "That's Okay."

11. "Thanks"
The woman is thanking you. Don't faint and don't look for hidden meaning. Just say, "you're welcome."

12. "Thanks A Lot"
Dramatically different from "Thanks." A woman will say "Thanks A Lot" when she is really ticked off at you. It is usually followed by the "Loud Sigh." This signifies that you have hurt her in some callous way. Be careful not to ask what is wrong after the "Loud Sigh," as she will only tell you "Nothing."

This is why women are hard to understand, always saying something and meaning something else. Fortunately I figured this out a long time ago and found a way around it all.

thanks princess!

Anyone got good ideas what to take her to do?

thanks princess!

Anyone got good ideas what to take her to do?
Roller disco!

Show her this thread. She would think it's cute/stalkerish. So 50/50! Great odds!

Show her this thread. She would think it's cute/stalkerish. So 50/50! Great odds!

:D:D thats priceless

AC, do you have an older sibling?

yeah, older sister, why?

Can she drive? Because it's kinda embarassing to go out on a date with your parents driving.

not quite yet, she will be able to in december. I don't think that kind of thing will bother her.

stop playing this game.

Devote yourself to her and her only in your thoughts. Next time you speak with her, she will know youve been thinking about her, it will come naturally. If you really want her, you will do anything to get her. Love her, and treat her gently.

Talk to her with your eyes, you can be saying one thing, and say everything with your eyes only. They are the window to your heart. If your heart is full of her, she will see it.

Sounds metaphysical but it isnt. Women have senses you wouldnt dream of having. Explore them.

WTF? that's a little too weird for me...

stop playing this game.

Devote yourself to her and her only in your thoughts. Next time you speak with her, she will know youve been thinking about her, it will come naturally. If you really want her, you will do anything to get her. Love her, and treat her gently.

Talk to her with your eyes, you can be saying one thing, and say everything with your eyes only. They are the window to your heart. If your heart is full of her, she will see it.

Sounds metaphysical but it isnt. Women have senses you wouldnt dream of having. Explore them.

Bed........CRACK IS WHACK MAN!!!!!!......."and say everything with our eyes only"????? my god...WTF wrong with you man????????

Ok my young padawan, listen now for the ways of the Blitzkrieg.

1. She left her number on your phone...... Prank call her (turning call sending off) then comfort her when she gets upset. Oh Yeah! Chicks need that knight in shining armour thing going on.

2. You got a boat, she likes boats. Go out on the weekend and show your little arse off! Hit the break and pull massive tricks, then strut around like it's nothing..... Pull a double backflip and stick the landing, then on the bank when she compliments you, say something like "oh, you liked that... I thought it was a bit whack, need to work on my technique a bit". She will admire you for being a perfectionist and will instantly be intrigued at what else you pride yourself upon. Chicks love guys that can do stuff!

3. Volleyball. This is the perfect oportunity to do some window shopping. A guy needs to make sure the chick he thinks is hot, really is. Check out all the other girls in the team (and the guys ... whatever) and if you get busted, just say something dismissive like "pardon me for watching the game". She'll think she is being selfish and forgive you. Then if she's definitely a goer, go to step 4 (otherwise start again with one of the other chicks in the team).

4. Seal the deal. As previously indicated to by other people, this chick digs a certain little conservative I know. So all you gotta do is get her behind the shelter shed at school, then it's fireworks baby. She's looking for the right place aswell.

5. If it's not on, it's not on.


6. If that happens to fail (which it couldn't possibly), go caveman. smack her over the head with a blunt object and drag her back to your lair. Jobs done.



With love
Blitzkrieg

Sorry to bring an old thread up.

BUT
Ok my young padawan, listen now for the ways of the Blitzkrieg.

With love
Blitzkrieg

I feel pain for the woman who is with you Blitz.

By now you should have been able to attempt a few of this thread suggestions. What worked? If there is no reply, I'll assume you went caveman and now reside in a cave with metal bars.

I feel pain for the woman who is with you Blitz.You've got admit it's great advice though! Having read it would have made my Valentine's Day better... making sure someone's not taken before going after them should be added :o

hmmmmmmm, I don't even remember this thread :D


How did my post kill the thread, it was merely the beginning!

How did my post kill the thread, it was merely the beginning!

Obviously your words of wisdom have worked and there was no need for any more posting on this topic. Everyone that needed advice took it, and are now living happily ever after!! ;smi551

Obviously your words of wisdom have worked and there was no need for any more posting on this topic. Everyone that needed advice took it, and are now living happily ever after!! ;smi551
Seems to be working for me...

Seems to be working for me...

and which piece of Blitz's advice was it that "sealed the deal"!?!

and which piece of Blitz's advice was it that "sealed the deal"!?!Speaking of that "Seal the deal" step... he's (was) 14, I think making 'fireworks' is a later step in life...

Boo!
Guess what?
Now that Ive started playing GEWar, I met the girl at the beach and now we are gonna go do something this upcoming week!
It seems like GEWar is a good luck charm or something.

Boo!
Guess what?
Now that Ive started playing GEWar, I met the girl at the beach and now we are gonna go do something this upcoming week!
It seems like GEWar is a good luck charm or something.No, you've just been blessed with

THE HOFF

http://www.poster.net/hasselhoff-david/hasselhoff-david-photo-xl-david-hasselhoff-6210197.jpg

wow, umm, what?
Not really sure what type of thing that was. :growse

lol man enjoy the summer and go to the beach as much as you can.
about that girl I have some friendly advices to give too - :friends
if it's possible take her to the place you met her (she probably likes the place if she spends her time there).
oh, and if you like to get a fine easy position to kiss her - movie at home is the best thing - if I can't get a kiss from a girl i just call her to watch a boring movie at my house, hold her in my arms and kiss her when the right moment comes (if she likes it, if not stay out of her eh?). any way, most of the times after you kiss her it becomes much easier and things flows..

good luck. :vinsent